6 SIGNS THAT ITS TIME TO MOVE ON
A saying goes; “Sometimes the tighter you hold on to something, the more it hurts”, and it’s true to an extent. You need to learn to let go of things and people that are destined to be just guest characters in your book of life!
But, do you feel confused as to when you should let go and move on from something? It is important that you keep an eye out for these 6 signs– then you will know for sure when to let go and move on from the toxicity and bring more positive energy into your life!
Memories Make You Happier Than The Present
If you feel like you are living in the past and dwelling on the happy moments you once had, then it is time that you start thinking about a happy present and a happy future, and let go of the things that are hurting you.
To be strong, and to have a more positive outlook on life, it is important that you move on from the past and enjoy your future!
It’s Getting Difficult For You To Trust Anyone
If you often catch yourself not believing in what other people say, then girl, it is a sign that you should move on.
This happens when your trust gets broken again and again– either by family, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your work, or your best friend. When you feel the betrayal vibes, you jump out of that wagon right away!
You Always Feel Like The Bad Guy
Whether it is your boyfriend making you feel like his mistake was a result of yours, or your boss pinning his incompetencies on you– this kinda negative energy is always bad for you. If you feel like it is always YOUR fault, honey, it is time to move on!
Your Self-Esteem is at an All Time Low
If you are with someone– perhaps your mother, your colleague, or a friend, and they constantly put you down or criticize what you do, you will start doubting yourself.
If the vibe around you ain’t positive and uplifting, the doubts will lower your self-esteem and the moment that happens, you should know that it’s time to let go and move on.
Only You Are Putting in Efforts
If you are in a relationship where the inputs are not 50:50, and you feel like all your efforts are going in vain– it’s a red flag!
It is important that you get away from that person ASAP, and treat yourself well because you deserve that!
Your Efforts Are Never Appreciated
No matter how hard you work, or how many sacrifices you make, some people never acknowledge your efforts, let alone appreciate them. That moment is a sign that you should move on and focus on yourself only.
All in All…
Spotting negative energy and suspicious vibes is important to get yourself out of toxic relationships and situations and these signs will prevent you from being too late. Remember, you come first!
